Honeymoon Travel Tips for First Time Couples
One of the websites I was looking at, when I was looking for honeymoon travel tips for first time couples, the articles were all like, “I’m not on a honeymoon, how can I tell you more about it?” On our honeymoon, my wife and I made lots of errors, monetary as well as emotional, in a Cancun airport. So, I’m writing the book I want we had. Not the professional rendition. The true one, with its sun-burns and missed flights and a handful of really magical moments.
1. Start Planning Way Earlier Than You Think
When the wedding frenzy abates, most couples begin their honeymoon arrangements. It’s too late already. Three weeks before our trip, the flights were almost twice the price as peak season pricing had taken effect.
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Six months is the optimum time. You’ll also have time to research your destination, secure early booking hotel rates and truly locate flights without 3 layovers. Use booking sites such as Google Flights and Skyscanner to set up price alerts, which means you don’t have to be the first to book and pay at the last minute. Believe me — future you will thank you!
2. Have an Honest Budget Conversation Before Anything Else
Money talk is not romantic but when it is not discussed, it will destroy the romance quicker than anything else. Before you choose a destination, have a discussion with your group and agree on a combined amount that you are feeling comfortable with. Factor in flights, hotel, food, activities, souvenirs and room for the unexpected.
We didn’t do this. I thought we’d have to share the expenses 50/50. She thought the wedding money was to be used for the honeymoon as well. That misunderstanding was at the heart of an uneasy dinner on night two in Mexico. Record the budget. Make use of a common Google Sheet, or an application such as Splitwise. One of the best honeymoon travel tips for first time couples is to have financial clarity.
3. Pick a Destination That Matches Both Your Personalities
It’s here where many couples go wrong. One person imagines himself lying on a beach doing nothing at all. The other desires to trek volcanoes and wander in street markets at 6 AM. Unless both of you discuss what you want to get out of this excursion, one of you will feel like he/she is being dragged along.
We compromised and we made our choice of destination one that provided both. Bali was a good choice to stay because it was possible for us to go out in the mornings for things such as rice terraces or temple visits, and then in the afternoons we could go lazy by the pool or have a massage or nap. A place such as Portugal, Thailand or Costa Rica can provide that very balance. The secret is that you must be honest with yourself about how you travel before you make any bookings.
4. Don’t Over-Schedule Your Days
A honeymoon trip is not a sightseeing run. The experience of my own hardships is what I learned the hard way, when we jam-packed our days with back-to-back tours, cooking classes and sunset cruises each day. On day 4 we were both very tired and bickering about what restaurant to go to for dinner.
Leave breathing room. Limit the number of activities to one per day and allow natural activities to occur. Things such as a little family owned warung in Ubud were one of our best experiences as we had nowhere to go. The group trip is packed with activity. When you are on a honeymoon, you want to move slowly!
5. Book Refundable Everything (Seriously)
After marriage, life is just not that predictable. Flights get canceled. A person who catches a cold from the reception. An emergency arises in the family. If the bookings are not refundable, then you’re just stuck paying those costs.
Using a third party website, we reserved a villa that we knew we could not get a refund for. Our connecting flight was delayed by 14 hours and we missed our first night, so lost was that money! Always book through the hotel or airline and take the flexible rate, which is a little higher, but I don’t have to worry about any hidden fees. It is also a good investment to get travel insurance from a company like World Nomads or Allianz. It’s the dull stuff, but this is what saves you $500 when things go wrong.
6. Pack Light, Then Remove Half
It’s not necessary to have 7 outfits for 5 days of travel. You just won’t. Both my wife and I had suitcases that were full and carried a carry-on and we wound up wearing all the same things just switching between two thirds. The rest have served as nothing more than space occupiers, and airport transfers were not enjoyable.
The best carry-on bag for most honeymoon destinations is one bag per person that is the size of a carry-on bag. Fold clothes, pack multi-purpose clothing and don’t forget to take advantage of a hotel’s laundry facilities. The Amazon packing cubes (the same brand as Peak Design are solid) keep things neat, but don’t take up too much room.
Honeymoon Travel Tips for First Time Couples Who’ve Never Traveled Together
This one deserves a section all on its own, as it is a big deal. This is the first time going on a tour together as a couple. You will meet at your most exhausted, lost and hangry. That’s a beautiful thing, if you think about it with the right mindset!
Talk About Travel Habits Beforehand
Do you like getting up early or sleeping late? Need some time out during the day? Are airports a place of fear for you? These types of discussions are more important than deciding whether you want a king bed or a suite. We just determined the first day that she needs coffee at the beginning of the day and I need quiet. Then we knew, and everything fell into place.
Agree on a “Reset” Signal
Have one of you say (or signal) when you are feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, or just need to get away for 20 minutes, no questions asked. This prevented us from entering at least two arguments. It’s not dramatic. It’s mature. And makes a little nuisance a nuisance in paradise.
7. Skip the All-Inclusive If You Want Real Experiences
There’s a time and place for all-inclusive resorts. But if you’re just looking for a day at the pool, ordering all the drinks you want, then you should do it. However, if you desire to actually discover a location, all-inclusive packages can really feel like a golden prison.
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For two nights we stayed in an all-inclusive resort in Cancun and three nights at a small guest house in Tulum. The accommodations at the guest house were so much better. Out there we had some of our meals in the local restaurants, walked the beach without resort crowds and felt like we were somewhere rather than inside a compound. Programs like Airbnb and Booking.com offer a great deal of choice of small, couple-friendly property with character. This will be a cheaper, but better way to get more memories.
8. Protect Your Documents Like Your Life Depends on It
Nothing’s more to the point than losing a passport on your honeymoon. It’s a nightmare featuring embassies, an emergency call and even potentially an extension to your trip for the wrong reasons. Have digital copies of your passports and IDs, travel insurance, and booking confirmations in a shared folder on Google Drive or in an app that tracks your itinerary, such as TripIt.
We also brought a little waterproof pouch from Sea to Summit to store our physical documents in. So that thing was with us everywhere. It might seem over the top, but if they get knocked over by a wave on a boat tour, you’ll know. One of the best honeymoon travel tips for first time couples? Don’t overdo it when it comes to redundancy with documents.
9. Budget for Doing Nothing
This seems to be counterintuitive, but it is. Set aside a portion of your budget for unexpected times. An amazing random café! Someone says at breakfast time that they were going to do a sail later, but it was going to be one of the last ones because it was getting close to sunset. A spa session without prior planning, but that you really wanted, after a long travel day.
About 15% of our travel money was reserved as an ‘extra’ for fun — there were no restrictions on this. The thing about this spending of the funds, is that some of the most memorable things we did on our honeymoon, were doing them on a spur of the moment basis. When each and every dollar is dedicated to a specific reservation or excursion, you’ve sacrificed the freedom that makes a honeymoon honeymoon.
10. Put Your Phones Away (At Least Sometimes)
I won’t ask you to completely cut off from any electronic devices. That isn’t a practical or very bothersome suggestion. I will say this, though: When both phones were in the room safe, some of the best moments of our honeymoon occurred.
Determine a limit that works for you both. Perhaps it’s no phones at meal times. Perhaps it is a bit of social media in the morning and after that, it’s all done. It is not a big romantic gesture that they have to make upon the arrival. It is fair to be with the individual you’ve joined marriage with. The photographs may be posted at a later date. Once a moment, never to be again!
11. Don’t Compare Your Honeymoon to Anyone Else’s
Instagram will give you a view of overwater bungalows in the Maldives and private villas in Santorini. Plus if it’s not within your budget, it can be demoralizing. But the chipperest honeymooners I know end up at the state parks, road-tripping through small towns, or a cabin two hours from home for a week.
Your wedding trip doesn’t have to be akin to what the travel influencers do with their content calendar. It should be like your own. One evening in Bali, we ate instant noodles on the balcony of our hotel watching it rain. No filter. No drone shot. Only us and we laugh about Nothing. That’s what sticks!
Frequently Asked Questions
How Far in Advance Should First Time Couples Plan a Honeymoon?
Try to get at least 4-6 months prior to your wedding. This will allow you time to book a better hotel, compare flight prices and deal with any visa issues. The other way to go is after the wedding as well, but you will likely be paying more and are not going to have as many choices, particularly in peak travel seasons.
What’s a Realistic Honeymoon Budget for First Time Couples?
The average honeymoon cost for couples in the US varies from $4,000 to $8,000, depending on the length of time and the destination. With some flexibility in dates and destinations, this is definitely a worthwhile vacation that you can afford. There is no better deal than what you’ll find in Southeast Asia, Mexico and Portugal.
Are Honeymoon Travel Tips for First Time Couples Different From Regular Travel Advice?
Yes, there are a couple of important ways. Most travel advice is devoted towards the practicalities and efficiency of travel. Honeymoon tips also must consider emotional issues, co-decision making and the nature of two people celebrating a personal issue. The practical aspects blend into the mix, but the relationship layer is something that most travel guides avoid.
Should We Book a Travel Agent or Plan Our Honeymoon Ourselves?
When you’re feeling up to the challenge of online planning and love doing your research, make your own arrangements using sites such as Google Flights, Booking.com and TripAdvisor. If your holiday destination is complex (more than one country, far-flung islands or luxury resorts with packages), then you will need a travel agent. Some agents specialize in honeymoons and may be able to arrange upgrades to rooms or get you a spa credit.
What’s the Biggest Mistake First Time Couples Make on Their Honeymoon?
The biggest error that I see and that we made was to keep so much packed into the agenda that it was too much. With so much to fit into a short trip, there is no bonding. Make time free in your schedule. These spur-of-the-moment moments are the ones you’ll likely have a conversation with for years.
Conclusion
There’s no such thing as a perfect honeymoon. It just has to be yours…with some planning and a lot of grace, and the willingness to laugh when it goes wrong. What is the biggest thing you’re looking forward to (or worried about) on your honeymoon?
